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This is a discussion on Depression within the Chit Chat forums, part of the The Lounge category; Same old situation can't fight Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy anymore have lost my guts totally can't type much due to sadness ...

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 Old 20 Jan 07, 11:28 PM
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Same old situation can't fight Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy anymore have lost my guts totally can't type much due to sadness the reasons for this are:

1) Can't Walk
2) Can't Sit
3) Can't Breathe on my own
4) Can't Play PC games properly
5) Don't have a Girl to Love
6) Don't want to trouble parents & friends with the first 5 points thus pretend to be Happy & Lie

But I have overflown my limit of taking it

Sorry for the trouble guys but just had to type this on my second most favorite forum

Edit: Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy websites say 50% chance of death after age 30 thats the biggest reason
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 Old 21 Jan 07, 12:53 AM
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^ Let me be honest - if i say i understand what you are going through - i would be lying. No one can understand your plight and its not something which can be identified by living it vicariously.

So trust me when i say this - what you going thru' day in day out is an achievement in itself. You are a brave guy and we all salute you for your courage and strength.

Its not about what you can't do but its all about what you can -

At the same time there would be days when you would feel very low indeed, all i can suggest you is hang in there mate, its tough but you can pull it through by taking it head-on. You have to fight thru' those gloomy periods - occupy yourself with some activity like writing, reading, watching movies, listening to music, chatting with your friends, helping out guys on TE and so on and so forth. Do what it takes to get thru' those times.

Another thing i would recommend you is - get more active on your blog - pen a short story everyday or start writing your own journal. Collate material on Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy and add keep your blog abreast with latest news on the subject.

Join the online DMD communities/support groups, take part in discussions, keep abreast of latest research in that field, join weekly interactive chats, advise other DMD sufferers, make new friends, if you get a chance to participate in some clinical trial on DMD then don't miss the opportunity, interact with Doctors from here and abroad by sending them mailers or if they conduct live chat sessions with some online communities etc. Basically be on look out for any opportunity in knowing more about DMD and learning how to counteract it.

About girl to love -

Well experience with them differs from person to person. Its all hunky dory to say - 'It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all' but trust me - its not that rosy. Some of the guys have been scarred for life living that awesome dream. I would not say you would have suffered the same fate but then every story has two sides to it. Yes its might bad you don't have a girl to love but then its not the end of the world. At the same time i sincerely hope you would find a girl that reciprocates your love for her.

About lying to parents/friends -

Everyday your parents wake up and the only thought that would be crossing their mind is how to make Udit happy today - what should we do to see that smile on Udit's face. Well - you can take pity on yourself and be sad or you can genuinely make an effort everyday to make your parents happy by having that wide smile waiting for them.

Its not easy for them too - no one wants their loved ones to suffer - seeing you like this would be breaking their heart every day but they are hanging in their - you know why ? Just for you - cause they see a fighter in you and they know they have to hang in there for you - they can easily give up too but then you inspire them and seeing you happy makes all their dreams come true.

You are looking for love from a girl of your dreams but your parents are looking at you for love - as they completely adore you. I am not sure on what the future holds for you vis a vis Love but all i can say is you can fulfill your parents dreams by loving them back and having a smile everyday.

In ending all i can say is -

There are ton's of things you are missing out on but remember there are ton's of things you can do. Maybe you won't live out your dreams but then you can inspire others to live out their dreams - you can be a part of their dreams - you can make their dreams come true.

God places the heaviest burden on those who can carry its weight - Hope you come out in flying colors - all the very best.


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PS: Its just a friendly advise from a friend. No offense meant to anyone. Just my humble opinion.
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^^Everything I wanted to say is in that post.

Like I've said before, Udit, you're a living insipiration to many of us here, and you had better not give up on us this soon.

Now head over to the Jokes section and cheer yourself up! This is Funenclave

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each and every word of dipdude is what i feel is true...
so mate..cheer up...!!
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I had not seen any posts here before sleeping but due to posts on TE was thinking whole night where I'am taking my life to & realized it is useless getting depressed as by depression I will loose all my enthusiasm for fun stuff like games, music & movies

and dipdude's post has really added to my cheerfulness

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now I have followed many fine opinions & have started chasing the line of Imaginative & Real life based story writing

The title of the Current story in the works is:

Story of Three different phases of my Life
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Udit you are going to encounter this kinda spikes in your life.

But i am sure you are brave enough and strong enough to tackle this.

Dipdude has summarised his suggestions in a great way so it cant be better than that.

1) Can't Walk
2) Can't Sit
3) Can't Breathe on my own
4) Can't Play PC games properly
5) Don't have a Girl to Love
6) Don't want to trouble parents & friends with the first 5 points thus pretend to be Happy & Lie
for 1) and 2)

But no one can stop from thinking and dreaming, believe in yourself and believe in almighty.

You can do a lot which normal persons dont do even if they can.

Look around net for inspirational stories, believe me there are much more than you can imagine.

ie : Stephen Hawking, Late Christopher Reeve, Hellen Keler, and many more.

for 3)
Take it in your stride and you have ventilator on your bedside for a support so you need not worry about it.

And a friendly advise : Dont exhaust yourself trying to breath yourself let the machine do its work and you do yours.

for 4)
playing games is not the only thing on net there are lot more creative ways to pass off your time.

and you have started one yourslef (writing), second i suggest is take up photoshop create good images and touch up someone else`s images.

and if you cant think of anything then there is always BD, XTO waiting for tp on orkut and gtalk go and bug them

for 5)
this is purely subjective, and love to a girl can be ina lot of way (you can be a loving son of a mother, you can be a lovely brother of a bubbly sister, you can be a friend, you can be a proud father of a budding daughter, you can be a solacing collegue of a work partner and lastly i assume you want to be loverboy of a girlfriend)

out of those much you cant be something, but i am sure you are atleast two of them. go on and do that finely and to your best put smiles on you mom and sis`s faces.

If you have a girlfriend and you go on dates and enjoy life, if that the way of life i dont think its so. thre is much more to life than just a girlfriend.

For you a way out is you can find some good person on internet need not be of your age but definitely a genuine, good friend. You are smart enough to find yourself.

for 6)

If you say you can hide your sorrow from parents then man you are kidding, it is more difficult to keep surviving a disabled child who is understanding and smart enough to face real life.

whatever sad moments you have seen in your life span your parents and family members are seeing daily in their personal life. Eventhough i havenot met you or your family personally but being a doctor i have encountered this kind of difficulty in my career.

I am older than you, and during this life span which i have lived i have learned a few things,

The world is nice place if you are nicer to other people. Believe me really fate always has some pleasant surprises for us.

Joy is in giving rather than taking, especially asked for or demanded love or affection is of no value.

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Joy is in giving rather than taking, especially asked for or demanded love or affection is of no value.
So very true my dear doc
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